Self loyalty

But I love him/her

We grew up together

I know s/he will change

I like the area because –

I need a get-away from –

I need the money for –

I hate the X but I like the Y at my job

Stop with the excuses and leave. It’s hard, tough, and at times can hurt. After a while you owe yourself something that can benefit everyone around who share the same common goals/interests. New, better experiences and people will come along. This is the basis of being loyal to yourself.